OldG, on 03 March 2012 - 03:15 AM, said:
As for fear of the 'deaded red light -' try this.... whenever you pick up your guitar for practice or whatever - record it. Every time without exeption, until it becomes normal that the red light is there.
Mick
Actually that is what I have started doing and it has been getting a bit better. I am what I call a "closet player". I would go up to my music room , shut the door and practice. My wife had never heard me play before. Ever.
Then a few months ago I finally posted a short song and no one laughed or shot at me. So I posted one more.
Still no laughter or gunfire. This song was #4 and it is starting to be kind of fun.
A few months ago I took one of my guitars and found a spot for it downstairs and now I practice down there at times where my wife can listen. She doesn't laugh either but I do get some strange looks at times.
It is just part of who I am. In person I am very quiet and reticent to join in anything. However, playing, recording and posting tunes is beginning to be a bit of fun and it feels kind of nice when my wife or someone here says it sounds ok.
I'll keep working at it and try to have a bit of fun while doing it. It certainly is easier than it used to be.