after reading over the advice and constructional comments, i think i really gave the wrong general understanding of what i was trying to do.[along with all the typing errors]. my original idea was to express some of the thoughts that might go thru ones mind,[mine], if i was sitting at the grave side of my wife instead of the gentleman i told about. i know this dosen't change anything, except maybe give you people a better understanding of me. thanks again for the info. it was totally 100% welcome.
elwood.
