[iplaytoworship]

so, i've been kind of stuck lately. i've got to the point where i can do basic chords(except barre chords...working on that) and i can do the basic strums that are on the strumming lessons here. but i really want to do some better strums...and my worship band is pretty sick of the same strum on all the songs too. (1&2&3&4&)
i have tons of songs that i can't really figure out how the players stum soooo FAST! and, i'm not one of those people who can listen to it, and just get it. i have to have music in front of me...unless it is easy.
anyway, my point is that i'm stuck and i don't know what to do because i can't find any better information!..and i can't figure out cool strums. so, any help out there?